Comments on: Don't Marry Your Problems http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/2009/11/03/dont-marry-your-problems/ Two friends discuss relationships and other mysteries of life. Wed, 09 May 2012 22:37:49 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9 hourly 1 By: The High-Efficiency Break-up « Life, Love and Online-Dating. http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/2009/11/03/dont-marry-your-problems/comment-page-1/#comment-26 The High-Efficiency Break-up « Life, Love and Online-Dating. Fri, 06 Nov 2009 06:16:25 +0000 http://lifeloveandonlinedating.wordpress.com/?p=64#comment-26 [...] was talking about earlier this week when I suggested that maybe a lot of us had a tendency to give new relationships more of a chance than they deserved.  The effort to make it work moves into the foreground, [...] [...] was talking about earlier this week when I suggested that maybe a lot of us had a tendency to give new relationships more of a chance than they deserved.  The effort to make it work moves into the foreground, [...]

]]> By: 20andcounting http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/2009/11/03/dont-marry-your-problems/comment-page-1/#comment-25 20andcounting Thu, 05 Nov 2009 16:11:56 +0000 http://lifeloveandonlinedating.wordpress.com/?p=64#comment-25 I think women more than men try to hold on and fix a relationship at its early stages, even when there are red flags. Most men I've encountered have an easier time letting go when things are new if they see red flags and tend to have more of a bolting mechanism in place it seems. Maybe women get caught up in their feelings more and want things to turn into a relationship faster- so they ignore those bad signs. I think a bolting mechanism can sometimes be helpful to save yourself from a future of hard one-sided work. If a woman is wise enough to see the red flags and bolt without getting entangled in her emotions- kudos to her. I think women more than men try to hold on and fix a relationship at its early stages, even when there are red flags. Most men I’ve encountered have an easier time letting go when things are new if they see red flags and tend to have more of a bolting mechanism in place it seems. Maybe women get caught up in their feelings more and want things to turn into a relationship faster- so they ignore those bad signs.

I think a bolting mechanism can sometimes be helpful to save yourself from a future of hard one-sided work. If a woman is wise enough to see the red flags and bolt without getting entangled in her emotions- kudos to her.

]]> By: Mike http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/2009/11/03/dont-marry-your-problems/comment-page-1/#comment-24 Mike Tue, 03 Nov 2009 19:27:17 +0000 http://lifeloveandonlinedating.wordpress.com/?p=64#comment-24 I wish you would have told me this last night. This morning was the honeymoon. I wish you would have told me this last night. This morning was the honeymoon.

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