Tiffany,
I can’t help but notice that some people have a difficult time making decisions in life if they are faced with too many choices. They delay the decision making process to carefully weight the pros and cons, putting off making a final decision in case something better comes along. Ultimately what ends up happening is that they will lose out on one opportunity whose patience has worn too thin.
I’ve seen people miss out on good job opportunities because they had several interviews or bids that they went to and as the calls came in, they held out for a better offer. I’m sure that you’ve heard the expression, “A bird in hand is worth two in the bush”.
This also applies to the dating scene. The expression in this case is that there are, “Plenty of fish in the sea”. And that seems to be the problem, at least that I notice. I think it’s tenfold with online dating and possibly worse if you are a man seeking a woman. I’m sure that you’ve noticed that women are literally inundated with emails from men, variety abounds. And with so many fish available, how can you be certain that you’ve found the right one?
So, what’s a guy supposed to do to stand out? To be the clear choice? Or is there anything he CAN do. Are there simply women out there who may never make a decision and pass up great opportunity after great opportunity? The best advice I have for men is to just be yourself. And the best advice I have for women is to not pass up Mr. Right in your quest to find Mr. Perfect.
i think the opinion that you get instinctively is the best one and I have always followedd that and have never got into a sticky situation.
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