Comments on: How would you catch a cheating partner

By: Love o Meter

Love o Meter — Sun, 15 Aug 2010 01:20:18 +0000

i’ve already a daughter t nshe is nearly going to be 8 months,but according towards the due date calculator i’m already 7 weeks pregnant..
.i am really frightened of bringing one more infant to this world,i adore my small daughter,but sometimes i feel like a poor mom simply because she is always with my husband aunt(my husband aunt continues to be with her following i experienced to returned to work after the three months of maternity leave).
..sometimes i think his father is a much better mother than i am…and now that iam pregnant again i really feel so scared…i do not really feel that mother instict inside of me, i truly do not know what to think anymore of myself…i love my daughter,but motherhood continues to be so difficult for me…please any advice will be helpful..
.thanks.

By: Eric

Eric — Wed, 28 Apr 2010 01:46:33 +0000

It seems to me that positioning “trust” as something that requires one partner in a relationship to fly blind is more a manipulative technique than it is anything to do with actual trust.

By: Eric

Eric — Mon, 26 Apr 2010 01:56:09 +0000

Thank you for touching that issue. Cheating is the end stage of the relationship. There is no love without the trust and there is no relation without the love. You can cheat for a reason and it is not so hard to hide but it is always better sitting down and discussing the issues which will bring the happy ending for both sides.

By: Anthony

Anthony — Sat, 24 Apr 2010 21:59:34 +0000

Tony, that is true for the people who cheat for emotional reasons (feelings of neglect or revenge). Of course, there are also those people who cheat for the thrill of cheating and discussion would be pointless.

By: Michelle

Michelle — Tue, 20 Apr 2010 01:31:33 +0000

By: Amy

Amy — Mon, 19 Apr 2010 03:33:42 +0000

If you have to spy on someone or check out what they are saying to find out if they’re cheating, you’re already way past broken trust and the cheating is irrelevant. You already know the answer.

Cheaters don’t ever admit to cheating — if they will cheat on you, they will lie about it too. I dated a guy whose mantra was “deny, deny, deny.” One night when he was out with me, an irate, drunk girl was waiting at his car and seemed incensed that he was on a date with me. He said, “She’s a stalker. An old friend. She never got over me.” I believed him.

But then he wouldn’t answer his phone (he wanted to spend all his time focused on me, he said). Something just wasn’t right. So I checked his email. He was dating not one other woman but FIVE other women and buying lingerie in bulk from Victoria’s Secret for all of us. Same color, even. Confronted him. Denial. Said I had proof. More denial. Brought him to the computer to show him his emails. Denial still! It was crazy. So I opened up each email and made him read them to me, out loud.

He said, “That’s it. It’s over between us. I just can’t trust you.”

By: Mike

Mike — Sat, 06 Mar 2010 19:59:43 +0000

By: Tony

Tony — Thu, 04 Mar 2010 13:43:55 +0000

By: Tiffany

Tiffany — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 17:43:32 +0000

It seems to me that positioning “trust” as something that requires one partner in a relationship to fly blind is more a manipulative technique than it is anything to do with actual trust.

By: Mike

Mike — Sun, 28 Feb 2010 02:43:37 +0000

It’s a strange thing, trust, it can come and go. Apparently he didn’t trust you with the truth (I mean, you were JUST dating). So, he must have meant that he can only trust you if you believe his lies. It’s even funnier when you think that he could only trust someone who trusted someone who was untrustworthy.