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		<title>Too Delicate to Dial?</title>
		<link>http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/2011/03/01/too-delicate-to-dial/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Mar 2011 15:52:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tiffany</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I often hear men say that women want to &#8220;have it both ways&#8221;.  By this, they usually mean that women want to be treated as equals, but don&#8217;t want to pull their own weight.  Until recently, that assertion made me more than a little angry;  I&#8217;d just never seen any evidence that it was true.
When [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Is Success a Turn-off?</title>
		<link>http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/2010/12/15/is-success-a-turn-off/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Dec 2010 17:01:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tiffany</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A few months ago, a friend at work sent me a link to a blog post called &#8220;Does This Law Degree Make My Ass Look Fat?&#8221; In a nutshell, the author suggested that men really don&#8217;t want to date attractive, successful women who have it all together and are self-sufficient.  They require, in her words, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Life You Live</title>
		<link>http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/2010/11/08/the-life-you-live/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Nov 2010 21:26:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tiffany</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/?p=799</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Mike&#8217;s post about losing your identity in a relationship (or defining yourself as a person looking for a relationship) brought to mind something I wouldn&#8217;t have previously connected to adult dating relationships.  As my daughter made her way through middle school, I was repeatedly dismayed by the amount of time and energy that teenage girls [...]]]></description>
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		<title>It Just All Depends. Really.  Everything.</title>
		<link>http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/2010/08/13/709/</link>
		<comments>http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/2010/08/13/709/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Aug 2010 19:17:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tiffany</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[One thing I like about Mike&#8217;s latest post is that he unwittingly concedes my point on an earlier issue.  I love when that happens, and am always vigilant for inadvertant concessions.  Some time ago, I wrote that there was no such thing as the &#8220;friend zone&#8220;.  By that I meant that all of the efforts [...]]]></description>
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		<title>There&#8217;s No Such Thing as the &#8220;Friend Zone&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/2010/04/04/theres-no-such-thing-as-the-friend-zone/</link>
		<comments>http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/2010/04/04/theres-no-such-thing-as-the-friend-zone/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Apr 2010 17:57:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tiffany</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/?p=476</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[We&#8217;ve been getting comments from men asking for advice on avoiding the &#8220;friend zone&#8221;, and I&#8217;ve got good news for them.  You&#8217;re not doing anything wrong.  There&#8217;s no such thing as the &#8220;friend zone&#8221;.  At least, not in the sense that men seem to dread it, as a big black hole waiting to swallow up [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Womanizers are a Different Breed</title>
		<link>http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/2010/02/23/womanizers-are-a-different-breed/</link>
		<comments>http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/2010/02/23/womanizers-are-a-different-breed/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Feb 2010 20:19:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tiffany</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/?p=443</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Don&#8217;t get me wrong.  I like womanizers.  Of course, most women enjoy them in the moment&#8211;if we didn&#8217;t, they wouldn&#8217;t be so successful.  Hell, we wouldn&#8217;t have a name for them.  But the tide turns.  Womanizers don&#8217;t stay.  And then a lot of women get angry that the man hasn&#8217;t kept all those promises he [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Grown-Up Dating: Is There Any Such Thing?</title>
		<link>http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/2010/02/18/grown-up-dating-is-there-any-such-thing/</link>
		<comments>http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/2010/02/18/grown-up-dating-is-there-any-such-thing/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Feb 2010 17:36:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tiffany</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[What I didn't know was that full-grown adults--not college kids in their early twenties with one foot in their parents' homes but thirty-something professionals with careers and condos and supposed lives of their own--were still looking to their friends to hold up numerical scores while their dates "performed".  ]]></description>
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		<title>Single Fathers raising daughters.</title>
		<link>http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/2010/02/15/single-fathers-raising-daughters/</link>
		<comments>http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/2010/02/15/single-fathers-raising-daughters/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Feb 2010 17:29:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mike</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://lifeloveandonlinedating.wordpress.com/?p=174</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Tiffany&#8217;s post about the gender differences playing a role in single parenting reminded me of what I admit is obviously lacking in raising my daughter, first hand experience.  I grew up having three older sisters, a mother and&#8230;later in life&#8230; I had a wife for nine years.  I knew from listening what it [...]]]></description>
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		<title>If You&#8217;re Going to Play the Game, Make Sure You Know Which Game it Is</title>
		<link>http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/2010/02/14/if-youre-going-to-play-the-game-make-sure-you-know-which-game-it-is/</link>
		<comments>http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/2010/02/14/if-youre-going-to-play-the-game-make-sure-you-know-which-game-it-is/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Feb 2010 03:27:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tiffany</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/?p=378</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Men seem to see competition everywhere.  Maybe it&#8217;s in their genes; maybe on some deep, subconscious level they&#8217;re always barefoot and sweaty in an amphitheater somewhere hoping their chain mail holds out.  
But the reality is that to be in competition with someone, you have to be chasing the same goal&#8211;and that&#8217;s something men seem [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Maybe She&#8217;s Just Not that Into You</title>
		<link>http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/2009/12/09/shes-just-not-that-into-you/</link>
		<comments>http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/2009/12/09/shes-just-not-that-into-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Dec 2009 00:59:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tiffany</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/?p=290</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Oh, come on, Mike.  We all know you can read.  And most of us are pretty sure you don&#8217;t really think that saying sometimes a person is too worn out and stretched too thin to enjoy socializing is the same as promoting the idea that being married is like having an extra child.  That&#8217;s not [...]]]></description>
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