I may not be as right as I normally am. We have been doing a lot of discussion over online dating profiles and the way that we should or shouldn’t be presenting ourselves. I think I may be guilty of doing a little white lying on my profile as well. Yup, I’m not actually a D cup. Of course, I’m joking…I actually am but size doesn’t matter. But the truth is that I have been painting a less than accurate portrait of myself.
The pictures I post online are carefully selected to portray what I THINK women want but my thinking may be wrong.
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Mike made some good points in his recent post about “white lies” on dating sites. In fact, many of them relate closely to the issues I raised in my post about the worst idea in online dating history. I would (for once) agree with him completely if it weren’t for one thing: he’s lying.
No, really. [...]
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Posted in dating services, online dating on Feb 12th, 2010
I’ve seen so many sites offering coaching of some sort for your on line dating profile that it’s causing me to be concerned about the profiles I like. Did I actually just read something that an amazing woman wrote or did I read some propaganda from a professional dating coach? I’ve seen articles [...]
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Not even for employees. Mike’s recent analogy between interviewing for a prospective business partner or employee and “interviewing” for a prospective life partner is apt. Unfortunately, it overlooks one very important point: interviewing doesn’t work. You know that I don’t believe interview-style dating works, but now I’m going one step further. Traditional interviewing doesn’t work [...]
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Posted in dating services, online dating on Jan 12th, 2010
If I wanted to expand my construction business by taking on a partner who wanted to do the same type of work and had a similar business philosophy, the most efficient way to do that would be to interview candidates. The best way to find candidates would be to place an ad in the paper or possibly online.
Of [...]
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Advice about constructing an “effective” online dating profile abounds on the Internet, and the concept leaves me scratching my head just a bit. So does the pervasive idea that “everyone” posts only his or her best pictures. I strongly suspect that I’m in the minority on this one, but I can’t see the upside in [...]
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Posted in dating services, online dating on Nov 27th, 2009
Reportedly, SugarRomance.org has a great new offering in the online dating arena–the personal marketing consultant to help pitch you to other members online moderator to help “keep it real”. It’s a fascinating concept, really, having a stranger step in and tell you how best to present yourself (or even make the presentation on your behalf) [...]
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I mentioned in an earlier post that, despite my misgivings, I’d registered for an online dating service last month. I was a bit dismayed by many of the messages I received, but there was one in particular that struck me immediately and has become a sort of shorthand for all of the inappropriate comments strange [...]
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Mike, I think this whole “too many choices” thing takes us right back to the issue of how we look at other people. You’ve made the argument in favor of weeding people out in advance, but I think that’s the very same mentality that leads people to think of one another as “choices” rather than [...]
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Posted in online dating, relationships, women on Nov 11th, 2009
Tiffany,
I can’t help but notice that some people have a difficult time making decisions in life if they are faced with too many choices. They delay the decision making process to carefully weight the pros and cons, putting off making a final decision in case something better comes along. Ultimately what ends up happening is [...]
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