Two friends discuss relationships and other mysteries of life.
Posted in Uncategorized, men, relationships, women on Feb 18th, 2010
What I didn’t know was that full-grown adults–not college kids in their early twenties with one foot in their parents’ homes but thirty-something professionals with careers and condos and supposed lives of their own–were still looking to their friends to hold up numerical scores while their dates “performed”.
Posted in Uncategorized on Feb 14th, 2010
I’ve never been a big fan of Valentine’s Day. In my teens and early twenties, I made it a point to wear all black on Valentine’s Day. Not mourning black, but head-to-toe sheer hose, tube dress and spike heels black that said ‘Guys…do you really want to mess around with PINK?’ Since my [...]
Posted in Uncategorized on Jan 24th, 2010
There’s been quite a bit of debate on this blog about the merits of intentional dating versus getting to know people organically. I’m sure you all know where I come down by now, but I’m aware that our strongly held beliefs and our actual experiences don’t actually match up. For instance, I have a couple [...]
Posted in Uncategorized, dating drama, gender differences, relationships on Jan 17th, 2010
So, you find yourself attracted to someone and you want to make you feelings known. But how do you do that without being insulting? I’m not talking about just a sexual attraction. I mean, for whatever reason, you find yourself drawn to someone. It could be from something they said, the way they smile or [...]
Posted in Uncategorized, dating services, online dating on Dec 30th, 2009
Advice about constructing an “effective” online dating profile abounds on the Internet, and the concept leaves me scratching my head just a bit. So does the pervasive idea that “everyone” posts only his or her best pictures. I strongly suspect that I’m in the minority on this one, but I can’t see the upside in [...]
