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		<title>Where is There Will, and Why?</title>
		<link>http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/2010/07/19/where-is-there-will-and-why/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Jul 2010 16:44:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tiffany</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A few days ago, Mike pointed out that no relationship stands a chance if the people in it aren&#8217;t motivated to make it work.  Both people.  He&#8217;s right, and frankly I&#8217;m glad to hear him say it, because you probably all know by now that Mike is no stranger to the belief that he alone [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The rush to intimacy</title>
		<link>http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/2010/07/07/the-rush-to-intimacy/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jul 2010 18:59:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mike</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tiffany once told me that physical intimacy is like a placebo, an illusion of real intimacy.   I&#8217;ll be the first to admit that I immediately thought she was wrong and just being&#8230;girlie.   How much more intimate can you be than being “intimate”?   However, my obsessive brain and habitual recreational thinking lead me [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How Much Information is Too Much in Online Dating?</title>
		<link>http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/2010/07/05/how-much-information-is-too-much-in-online-dating/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jul 2010 01:54:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tiffany</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[dating services]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/?p=633</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[You may recall that I&#8217;m not a big fan of online dating.  I did sign up for an online dating service once, about the same time that we started this blog, and with a lot of fortitude and chanting of &#8220;give it a chance&#8230;give it a chance&#8230;&#8221; under my breath, I was able to hold out [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Crushing in the Real World &#8211; No Void Required</title>
		<link>http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/2010/07/03/crushing-in-the-real-world-no-void-required/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Jul 2010 16:53:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tiffany</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/?p=619</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[In his last post, Mike said, &#8220;But, if you are simply filling a void with fantasy it makes no sense to me that the fantasy has to be a real person.&#8221;  I guess he&#8217;s right, but that&#8217;s a big conditional.  I think what his statement really means is that he and I differ about something [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Filling the void with fantasy</title>
		<link>http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/2010/06/30/filling-the-void-with-fantasy/</link>
		<comments>http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/2010/06/30/filling-the-void-with-fantasy/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jun 2010 12:28:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mike</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/?p=610</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[A crush is fun and can inspire us to live better.  I noticed that I have a tendency to develop crushes on fiction characters.   One of my longest lasting crushes is Dorothy Boyd from the movie Jerry Maguire.   It&#8217;s not necessarily any physical characteristic that draws me in, it&#8217;s her personality quirks and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Defining Success in the Dating Game</title>
		<link>http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/2010/06/29/defining-success-in-the-dating-game/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Jun 2010 19:40:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tiffany</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[online dating]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/?p=594</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I think Mike&#8217;s undecided.  I say that because so often his post titles and opening paragraphs reflect one point of view and his final paragraph seems to reach the entirely opposite conclusion.  He says games have a higher success rate, but just a few paragraphs later questions how pretending to be something you&#8217;re not can [...]]]></description>
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		<title>An Isolationist on Automation</title>
		<link>http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/2010/06/28/an-isolationist-on-automation/</link>
		<comments>http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/2010/06/28/an-isolationist-on-automation/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Jun 2010 12:39:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tiffany</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/?p=596</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m from Chicago, but years ago I spent an entire summer in Georgia.  A few things stand out in my mind from that summer&#8211;the steam rising off the sidewalks after a rain, the sun hanging in the sky until after 9 p.m., the view from the balcony of the hotel on the corner&#8230;and the infreakingterminable [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Games People Play</title>
		<link>http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/2010/06/26/games-people-play/</link>
		<comments>http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/2010/06/26/games-people-play/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Jun 2010 23:25:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tiffany</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/?p=565</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I cause a bit of confusion and find myself at a bit of a disadvantage when it comes to most human interactions.  Here&#8217;s where I go &#8220;wrong&#8221;:  I say what I mean.  What&#8217;s worse, I never really think to consider (despite ample experience) that people will listen to what I&#8217;ve said, make up something that [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Losing that personal touch</title>
		<link>http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/2010/06/26/losing-that-personal-touch/</link>
		<comments>http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/2010/06/26/losing-that-personal-touch/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Jun 2010 13:37:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mike</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/?p=578</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Something very strange occurred to me as I was leaving the store.  I realized that I had just gone into the store, picked up a few items, paid for them and didn&#8217;t speak a single word to anyone.  With automated checkout lines, this is now possible.  Human interaction is slowly becoming a thing of the [...]]]></description>
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		<title>A Relationship By Any Other Name&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/2010/06/25/a-relationship-by-any-other-name/</link>
		<comments>http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/2010/06/25/a-relationship-by-any-other-name/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Jun 2010 14:13:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tiffany</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Mike and Tiffany]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://life-love-and-online-dating.com/?p=562</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[The truth is, everything is a relationship.  It&#8217;s always troubled me a bit that &#8220;relationship&#8221; has been co-opted to apply to long-term romantic relationships when in fact every human interaction is a relationship of some sort.  We have relationships with the people we work with, family, friends, even the UPS guy who stops in every [...]]]></description>
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