Posted in Uncategorized, polls, relationships on Apr 28th, 2011
I suspect that if you ask five different people what a “long-term” relationship is, you’ll get five different answers. And I’m sure it does vary. Some people would probably say that it is a life-long commitment. Others might say that a relationship is long-term if you manage to sit through dinner without sneaking out the bathroom window [...]
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Posted in dating drama on Mar 3rd, 2011
Tiffany and I received another question from one of our readers. This question tackles the important issue of “when do I change my Facebook status to in a relationship?” My immediate response was, “Before the effects of alcohol wear off”. I still stand by that response but I felt like I should [...]
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Posted in dating drama, relationships on Dec 21st, 2010
A while ago I think I was in a relationship with a women. I say, “I think” because I’m not entirely certain. You see, she was a little flippant with regards to being considered “in a relationship” and would mysteriously dump me at random intervals. We seemed to be perfect for each other. [...]
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Posted in relationships on Nov 13th, 2010
It was a process that happened over a few weeks time. After ten years of marriage, she slowly began pulling away. Little by little, she crept away from a life that she had built with her husband and withdrew into her own private life. He could sense it. That presence [...]
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Posted in single parent dating on Jul 20th, 2010
I thought that I was happy. Or, at least, I thought I was putting on a good illusion of being happy. Whichever it was, I didn’t want my kids to know that my marriage was draining the life out of me and leaving just a hollow shell. I nearly had myself fooled and [...]
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Posted in relationships on Jul 14th, 2010
When asked what the most important thing is in a relationship, the number one answer is surprising. From what I have seen, “love” seems to be number one. Trust appears to be coming in at a close second. Honesty is another heavy hitter in the “Things we want” list but it still won’t [...]
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Posted in Mike and Tiffany, relationships on Jun 20th, 2010
It’s true. I tell Mike to cut his losses all the time. It might seem a bit contradictory, because I’m not a fan of the modern mentality that says as soon as the roller coaster passion dies down for five minutes, you should start shopping around for someone more exciting. In theory, I don’t even [...]
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Posted in relationships on Feb 24th, 2010
Let’s face it, for many reasons, cheating sucks. Maybe not as much for the cheater as the one who is being cheated on but it still sucks. Cheating is a violation of trust and intimacy. It can leave the other partner feeling betrayed and, in some cases, inadequate.
I’ve heard it said that, “If [...]
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Posted in dating drama, men, relationships on Nov 18th, 2009
Okay, Mike, let’s say for a minute that I buy your rationale. I don’t–I think that the vast majority of the time the reason a man (or woman) holds back is that he (or she) doesn’t want to commit. Maybe that’s because of where he/she is in life and maybe it’s the specific person in [...]
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