Posted in Uncategorized on Jul 3rd, 2010
In his last post, Mike said, “But, if you are simply filling a void with fantasy it makes no sense to me that the fantasy has to be a real person.” I guess he’s right, but that’s a big conditional. I think what his statement really means is that he and I differ about something [...]
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Posted in Uncategorized on Jun 30th, 2010
A crush is fun and can inspire us to live better. I noticed that I have a tendency to develop crushes on fiction characters. One of my longest lasting crushes is Dorothy Boyd from the movie Jerry Maguire. It’s not necessarily any physical characteristic that draws me in, it’s her personality quirks and [...]
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Recently, I entered into a bit of debate with my sister on my personal blog about the value of romantic delusions. Of course, “delusions” is my construction; she wasn’t actually arguing that delusions were valuable, but that what I termed “delusions” sometimes came true, if only for a moment. Even if girls who lived in [...]
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Posted in dating drama, men, relationships, women on Feb 23rd, 2010
Don’t get me wrong. I like womanizers. Of course, most women enjoy them in the moment–if we didn’t, they wouldn’t be so successful. Hell, we wouldn’t have a name for them. But the tide turns. Womanizers don’t stay. And then a lot of women get angry that the man hasn’t kept all those promises he [...]
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