Life, Love and Online Dating

I was recently forwarded a question regarding proper etiquette for calling someone whom you met on an online dating site. It seems the woman who asked the question was wondering why the men she meets online expect her to call them. The answer is simple. In fact, there was an entire book [...]

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When it comes to playing games, numbers don’t lie.   I’d like to say that I am all for the honest and direct approach but I’ve seen the statistics and games have a higher success rate.  I’ve talked about this before when I wrote a response to the book “he’s just not that into you”. [...]

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In her recent post, Tiffany posed an interesting question about adults having a “committee” to decide whether they like someone.   I’d have to say that I think this occurs as a result of repeated failure in dating and relationships.   When we start to lose faith in our own decision making we lean on [...]

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In Mike’s last post, he questioned whether love was really love if it went unreturned.  It’s a question I’ve heard debated many times, but I think it’s a silly one.  Love isn’t dependent on getting what you want; love is the opposite of “what’s in it for me?”
I think this question is a reflection of [...]

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Seriously, Tiffany, THIS is your argument? I just want to point out that Greg Behrendt, author of He’s Just Not That Into You, is a comedian. The book is a comedy written by a comedian and not a self-help book written by a psychologist who might actually have some facts or studies to [...]

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Oh, please, Mike.  It’s true that most women don’t ask the questions you mention, but it isn’t because they’re too quick to write a guy off.  It’s because they’re too quick to make excuses for him.  There’s a reason that He’s Just Not That Into You was the literary version of a shot heard ’round [...]

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